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TMI: Tuesday Aug 09

August 16, 2011

Better late than never TMI: August 09

Her: I saw you flirting with her. Cheater!
Him: It’s not cheating if we don’t have intercourse.

1. You have been separated from your significant other for six months. An attractive, attentive neighbor has paid you flattering attention. It is obvious he/she wishes to take the relationship further. Do you:
a. Dismiss him/her, you’re in a committed relationship.
b. Continue to flirt, but go no further.
c. Fantasize about him/her, but take care of your sexual needs solo.
d. Let the affair become physical.

OK lets start off with the question: what is the definition of “separated” in this case? Separated as in space? Or as in no longer in a relationship? In the first case I would pick a if the person made me uncomfortable, or b if I was fine with the sexual advancement. If we were no longer in a relationship then I might consider d but more likely I would pick b, then c and eventually get to d lol

2. A male co-worker whom you have heard is great in bed and very well endowed has been flirting with you a lot. He obviously wishes to start a relationship. Do you:
(This question is for women AND men).
a. Make it clear to him you’re not interested.
b. Flirt with him but go no further
c. Mentally undress him and wonder what he’d be like in bed.
d. Let the relationship become sexual.

Since I am in a relationship I think I’ll go with b and c lol Maybe even write a racy fantasy on the blog here for your wonderful eyes ;)

3. Your significant other is impotent most of the time, showing little interest in you and little interest in being sexual. Do you:
a. Resign yourself to no sex.
b. Satisfy your needs with masturbation
c. Find someone who can satisfy you sexually but remain with your significant other
d. Leave him or her

I pick e: talk to him about it and figure out the sudden change in demeanor. Almost all things can be resolved with a comfortable conversation.

4. The last time you and your mate had sex, were you:
a. Concentrating mostly on him/her, and you didn’t even orgasm
b. Thinking about your pleasure and theirs.
c. Concentrating mainly on your own pleasure.
d. Used his/her body as a tool to reach your own orgasm.

A for sure. I was not horny at all lol and really not in the mood, but Bear was heading back to work and I know he was not only craving the sex, but the intimate moments we have before, during and after the actual sex act.

Because I can only achieve an orgasm through clitoral stimulation usually I do use Bear’s body as a tool to reach my orgasm, he doesn’t seem to mind ;) lol

5. What kind of partner do you prefer while making love or having sex?
a. Tender, loving, slow and sweet
b. I don’t care, just do me; it’s been a while
c. Tough, take-charge, I like it a little rough
d. Any lovin’ is good lovin’

A mixture between a and c. Depending on the situation I like to begin with the soft seduction and then get kinky and rough, but sometimes getting right to the carnal sex is nice too.

Bonus: Do you mind if your significant other ogles/checks out another sexy person? What if they comment on that person, do you mind that?

I am a very possessive person. Bear is as well, but not as openly as myself. I will flat-out send a “pretty” smile toward the girl trying to eye fuck him lol he is more subtle and will slide his fingers through mine and pull me in. But I dont mind Bear checking out other good-looking women, and he comments, but we usually chat about it, or I notice her first lol. I am very observant and I can appreciate the hot piece of ass down the way as much as any man lol

Bonus, Bonus: What are your thoughts on the TMI Tuesday image above and the caption beneath it?

When I first saw the picture, to me it looked as though she was trying to listen in on their conversation and heard something she was disgusted by.
The caption, well I think that there are different definitions of cheating and intercourse of for sure one of them.

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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link totmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!

Sorry about the late posting everyone!! But I will be all caught up after I move onto this week’s TMI :)


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