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TMI: Tuesday- May 10

May 10, 2011
The 7 Contrary Virtues stand in direct opposition to one of the 7 deadly sins, which were addressed in last week’s TMI

1. CHASTITY – Not just moral wholesomeness but treating sexuality with due reverence and respect. It’s too late for you horny people to be virgins, and I know you can’t practice chastity. So…if you had to cut back on one sex act, for 90 days, what would that be? BTW…How old were you when you lost your virginity?

I was 16 when I lost my virginity. And if I had to give up one sexual act it would be penile penetration. I can deal without the actual intercourse part of sex. But the lead up, kisses, oral (both ways), fingering and teasing of any sort.

2. TEMPERANCE – Learn how to control sexual desires rather than fulfilling them. I know many of you are wanking double time in honor of May Masturbation Month, what’s the longest you’ve gone without masturbating? Was it self-induced or did someone command you not to masturbate? Did you find it frustrating or liberating?

I dont masturbate as of yet. Fingering myself freaks me out. I guess I can change this so how long ive gone without sex. After I lost my virginity I was steadily having sex… not during the relationship with my boyfriend at the time, but after. Sexual activities were many. And when Bear and I got together, and our relationship was definitely sexual before it was romantic. So I guess the longest Ive gone without sex was three weeks, which was painful. Bear works away for a week and is home for a week. So if I have my period the week he is home, and we get n a fight, say goodbye to sex until next shift off.

3. CHARITY – A willingness to give, freely and without request for commendation. Have you ever had sex relations with someone just because you felt badly to turn them down or you felt sorry for them?

lol uh no, and I hope no one has with me lol

4. DILIGENCE – A zealous attitude and careful nature toward living and sharing. Are you a diligent lover? Do you offer more than 10 minutes in the missionary (i.e., lazy lover)? What do you do that makes  you a diligent lover?

Missionary is not a fave position of Bear and I. We regularly mix it up. Doggy, the triangle (if this is a technical term lol legs straight up) off the side of the bed, backwards and forwards, backwards cowgirl etc. I think that I can be both a diligent lover as well as a selfish lover, as can everyone. When I am extremely horny, Bear basically has to lay there and take whatever I can dish out.

5. PATIENCE – Seeking appropriate resolution to conflicts, and on the ability to forgive and show mercy. Your lover never seems to be in the mood for any kind of sexual activity. How patient are you? Do you:
a. Gingerly and sweetly try to talk to them about it and coax them into being in the mood.
b. Force yourself on them by making them feeling guilty about “denying” you so you get pity sex.
c. Go off and masturbate to satisfy your urges?
d. Hang your head low and hope tomorrow will be the day he/she is in the mood for nookie.

Definitely A, although I rarely have to convince him in any way. Bear can go for sex whenever, unless he is sick, but even then, he hints at sex to “make him feel better” lol

6. KINDNESS – Manifests as the unprejudiced, compassionate and charitable concern for others. You are an enlightened sexual being full of sex positivity, confidence, and you love sex! Your motto is to “practice random acts of sexual kindness.” I’m curious what would your most prolific act of sexual kindness be? Why?

I can’t answer this question. I couldn’t randomly touch someone and expect to completely please them too. I can please Bear at the drop of a hat, but only because we are in tuned with one another and know what the other likes and essentially needs to reach that prolific sexual experience.

7. HUMILITY – modest behavior, selflessness and the giving of respect. When are you prone to modesty? In what ways do you look out for the interest of others doing things not from selfishness?

I think they everyone should be respectful of themselves. As in lets not go out with clothing or makeup that make us look trashy or what have you. This being said I think everyone’s perspective of trashy, slutty etc is different. So respect yourself. If you ass is out, I’m going to tell you, if your makeup is drag queen and not appropriate for the event, work or whatever you are attending then I will tell you. I dont want you to go out and put yourself into a situation where you are going to suffer disrespect from others.


Bonus: Your lover has made you mad but he/she is clueless and is making sexual advances. You:
a. Stay miffed or irritated at your lover and refuse to have sex
b. Rebuke your lover’s advances and tell him/her “not now because I am upset with you”
c. Set the anger aside and have great make up sex
d. Have selfish sex and do only what you want and take what you need with no regard for reciprocal satisfaction

I think I could honestly pick A first, then D. I hate makeup sex. If you pissed me off, you’re not getting laid unless you give ME everything I need. Youre making up for your mistake, so lets not focus on you.

3 Comments leave one →
  1. May 11, 2011 2:32 am

    Great responses. Thanks for playing along.

    Your bold Bonus question response is the best :D

  2. May 11, 2011 5:38 am

    Hi.
    # 2 – Vibrators can be fun when used either by yourself with a friend:-)

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